Who Said Nothing in Life is Free?

Word Relax is a Scam

When I first heard about the app Word Relax by Dream Studio a few months ago, I was intrigued.  It is a word game similar to the games I like to play on my phone and they claim you will make money while playing it.  I am not naïve and figured I would have to play for a really long and watch a ton of ads (there is one ad between each level and other ads to watch for the free coins to play). What I didn’t know was that it is impossible to reach the $20 minimum to cash out.   I spent months playing every day and finished all 6100 levels of the game. There are now no more games for me to play and I am only at $19.99.  So basically it is impossible to get to $20 to cash out.

How the game works is that you start off “earning” quick money and as you play through more levels you must complete more and more games to earn less and less money. By the time I was at $19.73, I was earning a penny for completing 99 to 189 levels. Then when I finally reached $19.99 at level 6100, there were no games left to play.  However, you need $20 to cash out for PayPal or an Amazon gift card but you will never reach it.

If you search, you will find reviews from people saying they made money at level 3000 so I assume that the app developers changed the game after they received plenty of good reviews. They actually have a 4.7 rating for their app but if you read the reviews most people rating it high played very early on in the game or wrote their review before playing for very long.  What people need to do is go read all the 1 star reviews (like mine) to see the game now is impossible to make money off of.

I contacted them through the “contact us” button on the app and have not received any reply and I am not holding my breath that I will.  Sadly, many people are going to play this game and watch tons of ads that the developer will make money off of and no one will ever be paid what is owed to them.  I just hope this post gets found when people search for reviews on the game !!!

Infidelity is a common issue between most couples. Even some of the most faithful spouses you know eventually discuss infidelity.

This can be a painful moment in anyone’s relationship. So how do you bring up the topic without causing more harm than good?

Here, we will take a look at some ways you can begin to reckon with infidelity and get the answers you need from your partner.

1) Don’t Jump to Emotions

Positive communication must be your first plan of action. If you come in hot with an angry tone, you’ll be met with hostility. Your partner will try to defuse your emotions instead of telling you what’s really going on.

Open communication is the basis of any good relationship. Although it may be scary to confront your partner with suspicions, you owe them the respect of non-hostility before you confirm any wrongdoings.

Letting suspicions and jealousy brew inside you can lead to a toxic state of mind. Although easier said than done, but it is best to put your thoughts on the table and see what happens. Any worthwhile partner will respect your openness and straight forward attitude.

2) Bring in a Professional

Unfortunately, some relationships regress past the point of open communication. For this group, a professional is necessary.

There are two paths here: couples therapy or group therapy. Both have their benefits: in couples therapy, you get undivided attention from your therapist, while in group, you benefit from hearing other couples’ stories and hearing their feedback.

Couples therapy is not just for the married. Many unwed couples benefit greatly from this service. Sex therapy has also proven to be a great tool for struggling couples.

Hopefully, by the end of this process, you can begin to approach a state of trust in your relationship. Trust is earned over time and through sacrifice. Your relationship is impossible without it.

However, if your partner is unwilling to participate and you need answers, consider private investigation. Services like Utroskap offer access to private investigators who can give you the answers you are looking for.

3) Learn From Your Past

Have you ever cheated or been cheated on in your past? 

It is important to reflect on this because your past may be informing your current decisions.

Being cheated on can cause trauma in your life for years. So ask yourself: am I projecting this pain into my current relationship?

It is understandable to be more paranoid than the average person after being cheated on. Yet, it is unfair to put feelings from your past on your current partner.

4) Consider All Your Options

Alternative lifestyles like polyamory have become increasingly popular over the years. Perhaps a monogamous relationship was not what you were looking for in the first place. Now is the time to look at your situation and see what else is out there.

Consider taking some alone time. It might not be easy for you if you’re used to being around a partner 24/7, but getting reacquainted with yourself is invaluable and only strengthens any future relationships.

5) Acceptance 

In the sad case that there has been an act of infidelity, Now is the time to begin healing. This may very well be one of the more traumatic times in your life. Take the time you need to recover.

Look at this moment as a chance for rebirth. Some of the greatest works of art and music have blossomed in heartbreak. Now is your chance to dig deep into yourself and see what you find. You are strong, and you will get through this.

What do you imagine when you think of your dream wedding? For many people, it’s walking down the aisle in front of 500 guests, wearing a ballgown which Cinderella would envy. But for others, it’s something much more casual – an intimate ceremony surrounded by your nearest and dearest, where you can let your hair down together and have a good time.

Because the average American wedding costs almost $25,000, it’s not surprising that more couples are choosing to ditch the drama in favor of a more laid-back day. If you and your partner are planning a wedding, and want an informal way to share your love with the world, read on. Here are three ways you can make your ceremony as laid-back as you.

1) Wear Flat Shoes

There’s nothing worse than wearing a pair of uncomfortable shoes. Pinched toes, sore heels, and blisters can easily ruin an otherwise perfect day.

Most brides are surprised by how little time they get to sit down at their wedding! Even the most comfortable pair of heels can leave your arches aching after a couple of hours – and who wants to be hobbling their way through their very first dance with their partner?

Sandals are the ultimate wedding shoes for laid-back brides. Think dainty straps, crystal embellishment, even floral designs – sandals can be even more beautiful than conventional wedding heels. If you’re getting married on a beach, then check out these gorgeous barefoot beach wedding sandals that will let you feel the sand between your toes as you say your vows near the ocean. There’s no 5-star wedding package we’d take over that.

2) Find A Dress With Pockets

Discovering that your new dress has pockets is always a victorious moment. Now imagine if that dress is your wedding dress!

We’re seeing a huge increase in the number of wedding dresses with pockets, so much so that many bridal websites now have sections dedicated to this trend. As designers embrace a welcome blend of style and practicality, it’s never been easier to find a dress that doubles as the perfect place to keep your ‘something blue’ during the ceremony.

From satin A-line gowns to bohemian lace dresses, there are plenty of options out there for brides who don’t want to worry about carrying around a bag on their big day. Not only are pockets practical, they also look great in photos – simply slide in your hands for the perfect effortless pose.

3) Embrace The Bespoke And Homemade

Weddings with rustic decor are all the rage. Whether it’s upcycling old wooden boxes into beautiful signs, filling jars from the thrift store with party favors, or making your own confetti from dried wild flowers, there are hundreds of ways to put your own stamp on your wedding decor. Handmade decorations don’t just look beautiful – they also help keep costs down, saving you money for the honeymoon or a future ‘rainy day’ fund.

Do you have any friends or family members who could help you create a bespoke ceremony? Perhaps your future mother-in-law is excellent at embroidery, or your grandfather is great at DIY. If anyone has any special skills, ask them if they would mind helping you put some finishing touches to your decor. Most people would be delighted to help out, and it’ll give your wedding a homespun, family feel that will ensure it’s as unique as you are.

Keep the Vibe Stress-Free

If you’re planning your perfect laid-back wedding, follow these tips for a ceremony that’s as relaxed as it is romantic.

We all know how important sleep is, but do we know how important it is to optimize our bedrooms for sleep?

Even though we spend around a third of our day sleeping, we don’t always design our room to best help us sleep. The environment in which we sleep greatly affects the quality of our slumber.

With that in mind, here are 4 ways you can improve the quality of your bedroom; hence, the quality of your sleep:

1. Ditch the Night Light

Light regulates when you are sleepy and when you’re not. When your eyes detect light, it raises your body temperature and produces cortisol because the light makes your body think you should be awake. This goes for any light, including night lights, digital alarm clocks, or the light on your phone screen when you receive a message.

Ditch the night light and turn over your phone and alarm clock during the night, so the lights don’t disturb you. Also, consider buying blackout drapes. They will stop any light coming in from the outside during the hours you want to sleep, but let in just enough in the morning to naturally prepare your body to wake up.

2. Invest in Quality Duvets, Sheets, and Pillows

The comforter, sheets, and pillow you sleep on at night will affect comfort levels and your overall sleep. If you are someone who already struggles to fall asleep, having an uncomfortable bedspread won’t help. Even one bad element within your bed can be enough to bug you and keep you up.

So, when you are shopping for bedding, check out which thread counts and fabrics are most comfortable in sheets, and the kind of duvet you want. This may vary season to season as well, as you won’t want to use a heavy duvet during the winter.

Moreover, one of the most important parts of sleeping is considering the pillow you lay your head on. Consider the way you sleep. If you sleep on your bad, a thinner pillow may be more suitable. If you wake up with neck pain, you are most likely not using the right pillow. Also, maintain a healthy pillow game by replacing your pillow every 1-2 years or when they’re too flat and worn.

3. Ditch the Electronics

Technology, social media, and instant messaging are permanent fixtures in our lives, but they shouldn’t be allowed in the bedroom! When it’s time for sleep, you want to eliminate all distractions. The free-for-all nature of Twitter and Facebook can get your mind racing at somebody’s comments when your brain should be winding down.

WhatsApp and Messenger messages on your phone or tablet light up your room and disturb you with pings just as you are about to fall asleep. If possible, turn off electronics during sleeping hours, use an old school alarm clock, or put your phone on do not disturb. Emails and push notifications alerting you in the middle of the night will disrupt your sleep pattern and can be quite annoying.

4. Eliminate Clutter

There are so many benefits to reducing the clutter in your bedroom. A cluttered room leads to a cluttered mind! Sleeping in an untidy, chaotic space can stop you from relaxing after a long day. It may also serve as a distraction if you’re trying to sleep.

It’s as simple as clearing your bed before laying down on it. Make this a habit, and you will improve your sleep in no time!

Conclusion

These are 4 ways you can be on your way to a healthier, more enjoyable sleep. All it takes is making a few changes and developing habits you’ll enjoy for the rest of your life!

If you love home improvement and you’re looking for a new career, you may want to consider becoming a general contractor. This is a respected profession that is practiced by thousands of people across the country.

A contractor plays an important role at any major construction site. They manage and oversee projects and communicate between clients, vendors, and construction workers. They make sure a job gets done on-time and on-budget.

If you enjoy home improvement, you might be a perfect fit for this type of job. However, there are certain steps you’ll have to take before you get there. We’ve put together a general overview of the process for you. We’ll take you through it step-by-step so that you understand what it takes to become a contractor.

What Benefits Can You Expect?

While you are deciding if this career move is right for you, take the time to learn what you might get out of it. This particular profession has a lot to offer if you’re good at what you do. Some of the benefits include:

Pay – As a general contractor, you are responsible for a lot of different people on the job. Because of this high level of responsibility, you’d have the pay to match it. Depending on what types of projects you head, you can make anywhere from 80,000 to 90,000 dollars a year or more.

Connections – While you work on different projects, you will gain valuable connections. You are an important point of contact for everyone working on a construction site. People you work with will remember you and may contact you about future opportunities. You will be able to build a steady network. As you complete jobs, remember to make a good impression. That will determine whether or not you are hired back for future job opportunities.

Travel – As a contractor, you will also have the opportunity to travel. Because most certifications are issued by the state, you may have to remain in the state. But that still allows you to take on projects in other cities. If you like to travel and see different cities, this is a great perk.

Flexibility – Another benefit of becoming a general contractor is the flexibility it offers you. Most of the time, you have the power to choose which projects you want to work on and which ones you’d prefer to decline. It’s also easier to work projects around other events in your life.

Opportunity to Be Your Own Boss – Depending on how you structure your career, you can be your own boss. You don’t have to answer to anyone else unless you work for a larger company. But if you decide to work as a freelancer or start your own company, you can shape your business into whatever you want. You may have to study up on rules and regulations regarding business ownership and management, but the rewards are worth it.

Education – In some places, you may be able to get into contract work with only a high school diploma. To do this, you have to be extremely focused and skilled from the beginning. However, it is becoming more common to see professionals with a college education as the standard. If you are starting a degree with the intention of becoming a full-time contractor one day, some popular subjects to study include:

• Building/construction science
• Architecture
• Construction management
• Construction engineering

When you pursue post-secondary education in a construction-focused field, you will gain valuable insight and hands-on experience. Some of the skills you are likely to build include:

• Scheduling
• Handling ethics
• Project management
• Dealing with contracts

Working as a contractor takes more than just a solid understanding of the construction process, which is why classes like these are so important. To be successful in this job, you need to be good at working with people. You don’t have to be a bubbly people person, but you do need to know how to manage employees and see the bigger picture. If you have experience working with others in previous jobs, those skills can be easily transferred. At the end of the day, completing a project successfully is all about cooperation.

Another type of path that people choose on the road to becoming a general contractor is the internship/apprenticeship path. While you are in school, or even after graduation, you can complete an internship or apprenticeship with an established company. Try to find a program that pays a decent wage. Some companies try to underpay their interns, or they don’t pay them at all. You may also have the chance to work part-time somewhere in exchange for class credit.

Training and Experience – In addition to the valuable training you’ll receive as a part of a degree program, you should

also build up your real-life experience. Most clients prefer to hire someone with a few years of experience in the industry unless you’re a friend. If you are hired to work for a large company, you may have additional company-specific training to complete as well. If you have the opportunity to do an internship or hands on course while in school, take it.

Certifications and Licensing

Once you finish your training and education, make sure that you have all the licenses and certifications that you need. Some states require you to be licensed if you want to complete certain types of projects, however, this varies from state to state.

For example, if you are looking to get a contractors license in Alabama, you should research the requirements in that particular state. Look for a program that offers a final course and/or exam to take. During your career, it is important that you keep all of your certifications and licenses updated. Following the necessary laws and regulations is important for safety purposes.

Conclusion 

Now that you understand the process, you can make your own plan. Once you become a contractor, you can work in a field that you love while making a substantial income.